Some pick up lines are just terrible.

For example how often have you heard bad pick up lines such as:

“Nice shoes. Wanna bang?”

“Do you believe in love at first sight, or should I walk by again?”

“Did you wash your pants with windex? Because I can see myself in them.”

Face it, using lines like this will cause a girl to run the other way. Pick up lines like these make you look like an idiot.

Because pick of lines such as these, which are bad get too much attention, while encouraging others to consider that all pick up lines are worthless.

This simply is not true.

Using good pick up lines actually assist you in picking up a woman.

The true point in using pick up lines is to begin a conversation.

It is as simple as that, merely to engage a woman in conversation.

After the woman begins talking with you, then you work your magic of getting her to date you, her telephone number and the emotional connection.

But if you can’t get the conversation started, then you can do anything else!

You want something more that just talking to a woman; you want to engage her in a good conversation. Drawing her into your conversation is the only means of continuing your relationship journey.

Do you know that good pick up lines do just that?

Do you know that when most men meet women they are at a loss for words to begin talking to a woman? They try to think of something off the top of their head, while often missing the opportunity of meeting a nice woman, before they can think of something to say.

That is why it’s important to know one or two good pick up lines that actually WORK. Because for those situations where you can’t be original, you need something to help you take action!

Keep in mind that women are wise; never use these types of pick up lines, since they get you nowhere at all.

“Don’t I know you from somewhere?”

All women know this to be a lame pick up line. You might think you’re being clever when you say this, but you’re not.

Other bad pick up lines include, asking for directions, complimenting her on her clothing and telling her she looks like some big celebrity.

Why do you think this is?

These lines do not engage the woman, since once she answers you; the conversation has nowhere to go.

Avoid pick up lines that have yes and no answers. Good pick up lines get a woman to think about her reply, while inducing an emotional reaction, which encourages her to continue talking with you.

How do you engage a woman in conversation?

Asking her opinion of something is the easiest way to do this, since each woman has an opinion and they like sharing their ideas, especially about relationships.

Here is an example. Say to her, Can I get your opinion on something, please. Do you think it is strange for a woman to try to get pregnant at certain times so her child is born under a particular astrological sign? I would really be interested in a womans opinion of this.

Once you engage her in the conversation you may follow up with a tale of some woman who wants to be sure she and her children are astrologically compatible, to make life a bit more enjoyable as life moves along.

This can lead to various other topics of conversation, such as:

1. Relationships

2. Children

3. Pregnancy

4. Pregnancy

5. Relationships

The numerous ideas for conversations are unlimited. Here you will find a few of my favorite follow-ups.

“Do you think there’s something to astrology?” (then lead into more discussion about destiny or fate.)

“What is your zodiac sign?” (This can lead to talking about your sign compatibility – as a general rule, no matter what your sign is – you are compatible!)

“Are you fond of children? You seem very nurturing.”

I could go on and on, but you get the idea.

A good pick up line design draws a woman into an interestingly deep conversation, while allowing you the opportunity of getting to know one another better and becoming familiar with one another.

This is how conversations are started!

At this point, it’s the easiest thing in the world to get a phone number from a girl, and possibly even set up a first date.

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